"An Astonishing Farce of Misperception"
As with Bellow, excerpting Roth is probably futile: every page has a gem, or three. Yet sometimes, futility is no excuse:
Yet what are we to do about this terribly significant business of other people, which gets bled of the significance we think it has and takes on instead a significance that is ludicrous, so ill-equipped are we all to envision one another’s interior workings and invisible aims? Is everyone to go off and lock the door and sit secluded like the lonely writers do, in a soundproof cell, summoning people out of words and then proposing that these word people are closer to the real thing than the real people that we mangle with our ignorance every day? The fact remains that getting people right is not what living is all about anyway. It’s getting them wrong that is living, getting them wrong and wrong and wrong and then, on careful reconsideration, getting them wrong again. That’s how we know we’re alive: we’re wrong. Maybe the best thing would be to forget being right or wrong about people and just go along for the ride. But if you can do that—well, lucky you.
--American Pastoral
1 Comments:
I loved this passage when I first read it.
I figure it's best to try to get people right, knowing in advance you're probably wrong, so you can take it lightly, without much disappointment, when your fallibility is confirmed. Anyway, there's a kind ofcomfort in this. The distance we put between ourselves and our confidence that we have found out the worst about someone is space for hope.
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